The following was written and posted on a blog by one of my favorite bloggers. Beth happens to be a Presbyterian minister, formerly an attorney. She writes with a foot in each camp, and is always on target in my book. She gave permission to share this portion of her blog post October 1st. I urge you to go to her blog site and read more. The address is at the end of this piece.
“..with
suitable humility, do I offer a short list of rules (more guidelines, really)
that might help Congress get past gridlock and actually have a budget every
year as they’re required to do (except when they don’t):
1.
Remember nothing is forever: if you will simply remember this obvious fact,
maybe it’ll be easier for you to vote on a budget that contains provisions with
which you disagree. You can always vote
to eliminate the program next time. But
so long as a program is a program, please stop voting not to fund it simply
because you wish the vote had gone the other way. Which leads to rule #2:
2. Live
with it. Things will not always go your
way. This is how things work when we
work in groups. And maybe, just maybe,
‘it’, whatever ‘it’ is, is not as bad as you fear.
3.
Resist the temptation to play hide and seek: this is not the playground, this
world you inhabit. Obscuring what you’re
doing by calling it something else or using thousands of words you pray no one
will ever read is dishonest. We deserve
better of you and so do you.
4. Act
as if we matter: Even if we the people do not matter to you, act as if we
do. Who knows, maybe over time, we’ll
actually come to matter to you – and that will be a good thing.
5.
“They” love America as much as you do: if you believe, really believe, this,
you’ll be surprised at how agreeable you can be with your political enemies.
6. Just
because something is hard doesn’t mean it can’t be done: yours is a hard
job. Anyone who says or thinks otherwise
is foolish. Pay them no mind. That said, never forget that the job being
hard is no excuse not to do the job.
7. No
one did this to you: nobody made you be a Senator or Congressperson. This was something you chose. So please stop resenting the job you worked
so hard to get and simply do the job.
8.
Remember what your job is: your job is not to get re-elected. Your job is not to poll all of us to see what
we think. It’s your job to do the heavy
lifting of thinking and listening to others among your colleagues and being
informed and making rational, thoughtful, and if you are so inclined, prayerful,
decisions. Stop pawning your job off on
the American people, hiding behind our opinions as if they’re determinative of
what you should do at any given moment.
We hired you to represent us, not reflect us. We want you to be better than us, not mirror
images of us. And if you need further
reminder, go back and reread the Constitution and remind yourselves that we are
not a democracy: we’re a representative republic.
9. You
are not indispensable. Nobody is. Thus you are not. The Republic will continue without you. A little humility goes a long way in doing a
job, any job, and especially your job, well.
10. This
too shall pass. When the Civil Rights
Act was passed in the 1960's, certain Senators predicted the end of the
world. It was the end of a world, but
not the end of the world. And that’s
(according to many of us) as it should have been.
11.
Compromise. Said another way, Idealogues
are ill-suited to representative republics.
If we the people those many years ago had wanted to always have things
go a certain way, we would have kept to kings and queens. Only when one person is in charge does
everything always go the way that person wants.
When all of us are ‘in charge’, it’s messy and complicated and hard work
and it requires compromise. Compromise
is not the nasty cost of doing business in the United States; it’s actually the
bedrock of our governmental institutions, this idea that the other guy or gal
may actually have something of benefit to offer to our common good and our
common understanding of ourselves and that our best understandings, not our
worst, come out of the wrestling.
12. When
you’re beaten, shake hands. Every child
on every sports field across America understands the ritual of shaking hands,
declaring the contest at an end with an acknowledged victor. When you lose, simply admit you lost and move
on. Don’t keep refighting the
fight. It’s exhausting of resources and
wastes time. You can keep protesting
when you’re outside the decision-making circle.
But when you’re inside that circle, you actually serve the working of
the institution at least as much as you serve your own particular agenda. To lead, one cannot act as an outside
agitator. That’s actually the job of
folks like me."
- See
more at: http://ifbethhadablog.blogspot.com/2013/10/october-is-for-budgets-12-guidelines-to.html#sthash.UXipdYug.dpuf
Now maybe I will forward this to my Congressmen..
Peace and Love,
Marilyn
This is way too reasonable. Unfortunately I fear that job #1 for most in congress is to be reelected, the public be damned. That and GREED which alas pervades most societies.
ReplyDeleteThese are the primary reasons that all democracies must eventually fail in spite of being the best and most equitable form of government. We will always elect the candidate that promises us the most something for nothing.
Hurray for a voice of reason in all of this madness!!! If only it could be so in the unhallowed halls of Congress we might actually get back to the people's business.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Marilyn, for posting this insightful article. I loved it.
June
Someone should print it and distribute it to each and every one of them. Do you think they would understand it? It might be too much for their brains.
ReplyDeleteI agree, but our Congressmen can't read or hear so it would be waste of time. They do what they want whether we want it or not. THEY DO NOT HEAR US, THE PEOPLE.
ReplyDeleteJoann